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Dear Leelammamma Binu Mon
Beejay Sonali Sophia Lucas and Maria ,
We are deeply saddened and very shocked to hear the sad loss our dearest Babychayan.
Babychayan is one our cousin from both side and we were a close family for the last three Generations in Haripad/ Karichal.
Whenever we were on the phone we used talk for hours talking about the families from both sides .
After my marriage we became even closer to us as a brother and brother in law .
Babychayan was very family man .His wife and three children and two grandchildren were his treasures who were closet to his heart. He never ended any conversation with us without prasing them specially his two grand children whom he treated them like special gift of God .He loved them so much beyond words.
All his other families too he treated them like his own family .He had a special place in his heart for each one of them.He kept he photographs of most them in his Ipad and sent me many of them via
e mail .He was so fond my Karichal family.Whever he spoke to me he mention each one them and enquire about their welfares .Babuchayan had a variety of friends from various back grounds such as Church heads, Thirumeni's (specially Athanasios Thirimeni who was his family too ) royal families, politicians from different political parties school friends ,from ordinary people to people of very high position ,both in India and USA .He treated all with respect and love like his second family.
Babychayan was a affectionate honest and loving person. Like his both parents he had deep faith in God .During good times and difficult times he kept his deep faith in God .He had great sense of humour and one could convers with him for hours
We feel it was truly blessed to be part of his family from both sides .
We traveled with him and stayed with him more than one occasion .Each time he had given us lots of love and affection with his special way treating us . Our last visit in October 2018 was very memorable one .Babychayan connected me to all our Karchal families in USA and Canada .I was able to speak to most of them which otherwise I would n’t have able to do .We received so much of love and affection and special treatment from Babychayan each time when we visited him
It was great spending time with him . With his great sense of humour and love we felt the day was too short.He could make you laugh all the time with his great sense of humour despite the health problems he had
Before we left last time he made us to promise him that us and my co brother Rajuchayan and Elsamma my wife sister must visit him this year in their house in Sandiago.we never thought it was the last time we were going to see him .
We really will be missing Babychayan for the rest our life but the love and affection we received and the fond memories we had with him will remain with us for rest of our life
We remember Leelammamma Binu Mon Beejay Sonali Sophia & Lucas and Maria during this difficult times .May God give you all the strength and peace to bear the pain from your sad loss .
May Babychayan’s Soul Rest In Peace in the Bossom of Abraham Issac and of Jacob and the company of all Angeles according to our Christian faith and may he be received by Jesus on his second coming
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With lots of love and prayers Rajan Susy Jerry
Jemie Han & Elijah
UK